Elder Uche provides a visceral account of the desperation and danger faced by civilians attempting to escape the conflict zone, specifically detailing a perilous crossing of the River Niger. She recounts the logistical challenges of moving young children and the reliance on networks of women for survival. The narrative emphasizes the ingenuity required to navigate a collapsing society and the psychological toll of sustained conflict. It is a powerful testimony to the strength of mothers and communities during one of Nigeria’s most turbulent periods.